Apr 06, 2023

T-Time Podcast // Ep. 27: **Role Reversal** Shannon & Ashley Turn the Tables on Tori and Ask ALL the Questions!

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Tori’s followers on Instagram have been eager to know more about her. In this exclusive Q&A, Tori sits down with Ashley and Shannon to answer some of her fans' most frequently asked questions. From her tips for improving your golf game to her career aspirations and personal life, she gives us a glimpse into her world. So grab a cup of coffee and get ready to know Tori better!

Q&A with Tori

Are you married? Do you have kids? And what are their ages?

     Yes, I am married and have three kids: Lucy (16), Charlie (15), and Alex (13).

How old are you?

     I am 39 and a Gemini. I will be turning 40 in May.

Any plans for your 40th?

     I will be in Pebble Beach around my 40th and may celebrate with someone else who is turning 50.

When and why did you start playing golf?

     I started playing golf because my husband, KC, played a lot. I quickly fell in love with the sport after hitting the ball far, thanks to my background in softball and tennis. I started taking lessons and joined a golf club after moving to Arizona.

Do you have any pets?

     I have four dogs, but my mother only thinks I have three.

What other sports have you played?

     I mainly played tennis growing up, but my mother eventually let me play softball, which I also loved.

How long did it take you to become a single-digit handicap, and then how long did it to get you to scratch?

     I had some experience with golf in New York, but it wasn't until I moved back to Arizona and joined a golf club that I started playing. At that time, I was around a 16 handicap and got down to 10 handicap within two years. Distance off the tee made it easier for me to improve my handicap quickly.

What are your hobbies outside of golf?

     My only hobby now is golf, which is also my job. I used to play in adult softball leagues and do many arts and crafts, but I stopped doing those about three years ago.

What is your go-to karaoke song?

     I do not have a go-to karaoke song and do not love karaoke. I would rather dance while someone else sings.

What does your workout plan look like?

     I am not working out a lot right now. In a normal season, I prefer cardio, such as running outside or using the Peloton bike or treadmill, as lifting weights seems boring. I only work out at home and do not like going to the gym.

What does your meal prep look like?

     I do not meal prep now but order food through DoorDash or Uber Eats. I used to love to cook and watch the Food Network, but I have lost the desire to cook in the past two years.

What is your go-to cheat meal?

     My go-to cheat meal is pizza.

Who is your favorite reality star?

     I love all things Bravo and am a huge fan of the Real Housewives. I also watch Vanderpump Rules, Below Deck, Top Chef, and Million Dollar Listing.

How do you stay motivated and committed?

     I am in a weird season and am not waking up early or working out as much as I used to. I am trying to embrace where I am now and keep showing up daily.

Who would you choose in a golf match between Bryson and Brooks?

     I would choose Bryson.

Do you prefer a hat or a visor?

     I prefer a visor.

Star Wars or Harry Potter?

     I prefer Star Wars.

Rap or country music?

     I prefer rap music.

Call or text?

     I prefer voice text.

Weights or cardio?

     I prefer cardio.

Funny or hot?

     I prefer funny.

Read a book or watch a movie?

     I prefer to watch a movie.

Lay's or Ruffles?

     I prefer Ruffles.

When in the bunker, do you Rake or swipe with your foot?

     100% rake.

Practice or play?

     I prefer to practice unless it's playing in a tournament.

Never miss a fairway or never three-putt?

     I would choose never to miss a fairway.

When you were new to golf, what did you practice the most, and would you make any changes?

     I used to get lessons to fix my driver and did not work on my short game consistently. Looking back, I regret not working on my short game sooner and not practicing more. I recommend practicing consistently and not just getting lessons without practicing after.

What is your golf goal this year?

     My goal is to win Player of the Year again for Arizona, but more importantly, I want to win an individual tournament outside the country club.

Do you have a go-to thought when having a bad round?

     I try to find a game within it and focus on improving the rest of my rounds. I try to build up evidence to boost my confidence.

How many aces do you have?

     I have two aces. One at Papago and another at Arizona Country Club. 

What is your favorite Arizona course?

     I love the courses I belong to: Arizona Country Club, White Mountain Country Club, and Papago.

What is your top bucket list course?

     Austin Country Club.

He's a 10, but he doesn't golf?

     I don't think I could do it! 

Which is your favorite tournament to play in and why?

     I love to compete, and I have grown to embrace individual tournaments. I used to avoid them, but now I enjoy playing in them.

Who is your biggest rival in golf?

     My preferred rival to beat is Kim Eaton, who has been my idol and the best golfer I have known. However, I also know that I had met many wonderful golfers lately, so it's more about doing my best and seeing what happens.

What would it be if you could only wear one outfit forever?

     I would choose a navy skirt and a white tank top, paired with hot pink shoes and a hot pink hat. This is my favorite outfit.

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