Hi,
Tori here.

I’m on a mission to create an unmatched
community for women in golf, online & in-person.

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Total Podcast
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Total Event
Attendees

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  • WHO I AM.
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I picked up a club for the first time just over 20 years ago, and was immediately hooked.

Making your first birdie is one of the greatest
feelings in the world.

But I also remember how intimidated I was. When I joined
an 18-hole women’s golf league
a few years into my golf journey,
I was terrified.

During one of my first days
in the league, someone made a comment about how slow our group was.
I was holding back tears the rest of the round. I
could have given up after that experience, but I loved the game too much.

And now, more than 15 years later,
I’m really glad I didn’t.

Golf has challenged me both physically and
mentally. It’s changed my life. But, I still remember
exactly how it feels
in the beginning - to be nervous,

to feel like golf is too hard to
break into, to feel like
you have
no idea what you’re doing!

The comment that made me tear up all those years ago, I wouldn’t even think twice about today. Which is exactly why I started sharing what I know online with other women. So you can feel confident on the course, enjoy
the competition, and start having fun. No stress, no intimidation,
just great golf.

  • MEET THE TEAM.
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ashley
ibanez

Ashley Ibanez serves as the Business Manager for Tori Totlis, where she runs day-to-day business operations, including retreat and tournament management and vender and partnership relations. While Ashley is "retired" from golf, she brings sharp organizational instincts and a genuine passion for building the business side of the sport.
 
Outside of work, Ashley is married to David and has two teenage kids. When not working with Team Totlis, she can be found at an ice ring with one of her kids.

 

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brooke

shaw

Brooke joined the Tori Totlis team in early 2024 as Podcast Manager and has since expanded her role to Brand Director. She oversees podcast production, brand partnerships, sponsorships, and behind-the-scenes strategy, helping grow the Tori Totlis brand and connect with women in golf. Brooke brings a unique mix of organization, creativity, and strategy to the team.

Outside of work, she’s a wife and mom who loves traveling and spending time with her family.

phyllis
haberer

Phyllis brings nearly 40 years of experience in the mortgage industry to the Tori Totlis team, where she connects with players and helps women feel comfortable and confident on the course. A lifelong relationship-builder, she has a genuine passion for golf, women, and bringing people together.

 

Outside of work, Phyllis is still in the mortgage business and an avid golfer herself. She summers in Rochester, New York, and winters in Florida, where the warmer weather means more time on the course.

everardo

keeme

Everardo Keeme has been with the Girls Gone Golfing / Compete Confidence team since 2021, one of the OGs. He goes by team photographer, hype man, snack negotiator, and, as a certified sommelier, the guy picking the wine on team trips. What keeps him coming back is the women who turn golf into confidence and connection.

Outside the team, Everardo runs Photo Fusion Studio, a corporate photography studio in Phoenix, and is the Mr in Mr & Mrs Golf, alongside his wife, Nicole.

Max
Chesno

Max Chesno works behind the scenes for Team Totlis, where he handles social media, organizes players for events, and keeps the team database up to date. If something needs doing out of sight, Max is usually the one doing it — a catchall in the best sense.

 

Outside of the team, Max is the assistant manager at Sutter's Canandaigua Marina. He lives in Rochester, New York, near his grandparents, and gets out to golf now and then with both family and friends.
 

daniel

yost

Daniel Yost is a golf professional at Stonebriar Country Club in Frisco, Texas, and has worked Compete Confidence and Girls Gone Golfing trips for the past three years. Originally from West Lafayette, Indiana, he came to golf seven years ago after starting out in culinary arts.

Outside of the course, Daniel spends his time with his dog, watching football, grilling and smoking meats, and playing golf with friends. He has a real passion for bringing people together and creating memorable experiences.

Alix
Chesno

Alix Chesno, Tori's sister, owns Alixandra Collections and ShopAlix.com, and finds all of  he Girls Gone Golfing event swag. She hunts down items nobody has used before and customizes them for each event. You may have seen her on the Golf Closet episodes.

 

Outside of the team, Alix runs her seven stores in Arizona and Chicago alongside her husband, Murray. She lives in Phoenix, has two grown kids, Max and Hailey, and can always be found at the Creek Cup, her favorite event.

andrew

hannon

Andrew Hannon is a golf fitness trainer and a Golf Digest Top 50 Golf Fitness Trainer in the U.S. He has been part of Desert Classic since the very beginning, running group and individual stretch sessions for players there and at other team tournaments.

Outside of training golfers, Andrew is home with his wife, Jess, and their daughter. He moved to Arizona eight years ago and has grown a following of 49,000 on Instagram, giving him a voice in golf fitness.

KC
Campbell

KC Campbell is the DJ and MC behind Desert Classic and every other large tournament the team hosts, keeping the energy up from the first tee to the last song. He owns VOX DJs and has worked events from Cabo to Jackson Hole for clients ranging from athletes to fashion designers.
 
Outside of the team, KC is a Manhattan Beach native and a University of Colorado Boulder grad. Hawaii is his vacation of choice and Santeria by Sublime his karaoke song.

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