Aug 15, 2023

T-Time Podcast // Ep. 63: Tough Lessons Learned from this Summer’s Biggest Tournaments & a DC Update

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Adam is back, and all eyes are on the upcoming 2024 Desert Classic. But before delving into the excitement that awaits, let's rewind and reflect on the valuable lessons Tori gleaned from the 2023 Arizona Four-Ball, Arizona Mid-AM, and Arizona Women’s AM tournaments. Tori's summer journey might be coming close, but the pinnacle championships lie ahead. As they distinguish the significance of the summer season within the broader context, Tori takes us through a post-championship ritual of dissecting experiences, celebrating successes, and pinpointing areas for growth. Join the duo as they explore Tori's insights, ensuring each lesson becomes indelible on the golfing psyche.

Update on the 2024 Desert Classic

WE ADDED A SECOND WEEK! There has been so much demand these past two years, we decided to add a second Desert Classic happening March 10th - 13th, 2024! Here's a breakdown of the key details for the upcoming tournament:

  1. Participants and Flights: The tournament will host 220 players (110 teams) across 10 flights, each comprising 11 teams.
  2. The Pace of Play: Morning and afternoon shotgun starts will be organized to maintain a balanced pace, ensuring smooth gameplay.
  3. Twosomes: While most teams will consist of foursomes, a twosome option is available, with markers assigned to maintain pace.
  4. Registration Options: Register as a team or single player, and we'll pair you with a similar handicap index partner.
  5. Handicap Index Range: The average handicap index is around 14, spanning from plus three to 40 (max playing to 36).
  6. Age Range: Players range from 30 to 75 years old, offering a diverse mix of ages and skill levels.
  7. Geographical Diversity: Participants hail from various US states and Canada, making it a great opportunity to connect with fellow golfers.
  8. Partner Pairing: Teams aim for a 10-stroke handicap index spread, ensuring a balanced partnership. Flexibility is maintained for a wider range.
  9. Prizes: Both gross and net prizes are available, with ample opportunities for both.
  10. Format: The tournament includes a scramble round and two days of best-ball play.
  11. Group Requests: While pairings are primarily flight-based and randomized, special grouping requests may not always be accommodated.
  12. Accommodation: Consider staying at the Andaz Resort in Scottsdale for easy access to the event and amenities.
  13. Vrbo: If opting for a vacation rental, ensure it's within a reasonable distance from the course.
  14. Retreat Package: There's no formal retreat package this year, but the event schedule is packed with instructional clinics, meals, and activities.
  15. Registration Details: Registration for the second week opens on 8/17/23, at 8:00 AM Pacific Standard Time. You'll need your and your partner's information to sign up.
  16. Email Notifications: Stay connected by joining the email list for updates and registration reminders.

For more information on the 2024 Desert Classic, please visit https://www.competeconfidencegolf.com/2024-desert-classic.

Tori's Highlights: Recounting My Top Three Golf Championships

Tori participated in several tournaments in her recent golfing journey, each with its challenges and lessons. From teaming up in the Arizona Four-Ball to facing distractions at the Arizona Mid-AM and finding renewed motivation at the Arizona Women’s AM, Tori's experiences showcase the ups and downs of competitive golf. Amidst these, a pivotal moment emerged during the State Am that highlights the power of persistence and the desire to get better. These are her tournament adventures and the insights they brought.

1.   Arizona Four-Ball at Sterling Grove

Tori joined forces with Corey Walorski, a strong player, and together they impressed. Leading by five strokes after day one, they faced tough competition on the final day, showcasing teamwork and resilience. Tori entered the tournament with high expectations but struggled due to distractions, affecting her mental game. Nonetheless, she adhered to a detailed game plan, highlighting the importance of focus and patience. This determination to overcome obstacles became a driving force behind their success. As the tournament progressed, Tori's ability to regain her focus showcased her mental fortitude, adding depth to their inspirational journey. In the end, Tori and Corey emerged as champions, epitomizing determination.

2.   Arizona Mid-AM at TPC Champions Course

Determined to regain her momentum, Tori sought guidance from her coach after each match, refining her strategies. As the tournament progressed, her resilience and adaptability shone through, gradually diminishing the impact of those initial distractions. Encouraged by her progress, her confidence grew, allowing her to finish the tournament strongly. Her experience taught her invaluable lessons about maintaining mental fortitude in adversity.

3.   Arizona Women’s AM at Desert Highlands

Tori faced her fears on a tough course by preparing well and not using her driver. She changed her thinking and followed a smart plan, which helped her play better and enjoy getting better at golf. She practiced with her irons and wedges, got better at aiming, and learned to manage the course. Her progress motivated other golfers and made a friendly environment. She showed that trying new things and working hard can lead to big improvements in golf and life.

4.   A Turnaround at State Am

During the third round, Tori sought guidance from Adam after a challenging start with a 10 on a par-five hole. Together, they strategized and executed shots effectively on the back nine, reigniting her motivation and dedication to refining her game.

Conclusion

Golf progress is non-linear; setbacks and distractions are natural. Prioritize the personal aspects, set realistic expectations, and understand life's impact. Consistency matters more than immediate results. Take cues from golfers like Ricky Fowler, who faced fluctuations. Stick to your plan, maintain patience and familiarity, reducing tournament jitters. Remember, it's not over until it's over – stay present and embrace the opportunity for recovery. Focus on the shot at hand; it's your most crucial moment on the course, shaping your golf journey.

 

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